Defining a victim: It is easier to blame someone else for your unhappiness than to take responsibility for yourself. Keeping the focus outside of you on someone else’s behavior (they did this, they didn’t do that, they said this, they didn’t say that) defines victim mentality. It is easier … [Read more...]
Archives for July 2018
Pretending
Many play pretend to survive and get through difficult circumstances. We brush things under the carpet. We turn a blind eye. We no longer talk about it. Deny. Deny. Deny. We live two lives. One is the pretend life that we present to others, Facebook, and even ourselves. It is much more … [Read more...]