Recovery Message
âHow much do we need to let go of?â a friend asked one day.
âIâm not certain,â I replied, âbut maybe everything.â
Letting go is a spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical process, a sometimes mysterious metaphysical process of releasing to God and the Universe that which we are clinging to so tightly.
We let go of our grasp on people, outcomes, ideas, feelings, wants, needs, desiresâeverything. We let go of trying to control our progress in recovery. Yes, itâs important to acknowledge and accept what we want and what we want to happen. But itâs equally important to follow through by letting go.
Letting go is the action part of faith. It is a behavior that gives God and the Universe permission to send us what weâre meant to have.
Letting go means we acknowledge that hanging on so tightly isnât helping to solve the problem, change the person, or get the outcome we desire. It isnât helping us. In fact, we learn that hanging on often blocks us from getting what we want and need.
Who are we to say that things arenât happening exactly as they need to happen?
There is magic in letting go. Sometimes we get what we want soon after we let go. Sometimes it takes longer. Sometimes the specific outcome we desire doesnât happen. Something better does.
Letting go sets us free and connects us to God.
Letting go creates the optimum environment for the best possible outcomes and solutions.
Today, I will relax. I will let go of that which is upsetting me the most. I will trust that by letting go, I have started the wheels in motion for things to work out in the best possible way.
Here you go, God: you are in charge!
Blessings,
Doc